How
should you decode those flirty signs...
When you have just
befriended a guy, it’s often hard to figure out his feelings for you.
While some men can be very direct and show interest right away, others prefer
sending subtle hints your way. But at times, the signals tend to get really
mixed and you can’t tell whether he thinks of you as a buddy or something
more.
- Try and figure out how he generally is with his friends. This
will give you a good insight into his normal behaviour. Does he call up or sms
all his girlfriends often or is it just you? See how he’s with his other
friends and then you will know whether you’re reading too
much.
- Make sure you aren’t missing the point. Very often
women tend to get carried away. For example, if he is extra nice to you and
offers to pick you up from your workplace, it may not mean there are feelings.
There’s a good chance he’s just concerned about your
safety.
- Men who have been drinking too much, may try to get a
little extra close to you. If he’s high, he may have said something to the
effect that he likes you and it could just be the alcohol talking. Meet him
after the alcohol has worn off and see if his feelings still exist.
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Don’t read too much into the nice guy act. Some men are just polite and
know how to treat women well. His complimenting you may not be a sign of
flirting but just the way he is with everyone. Don’t mistake his sweet
personality as a sign that he likes you.
- Men are a confused lot.
They can often be a bit indecisive and unsure of whether they really like you.
Guys also like to play the field. There’s a good chance that he’s
flirting with you and some other girls at the same time and still trying to
figure who he wants to date. Make sure you don’t get hurt.
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Despite their macho image, men are scared too. He may secretly like you but be
unsure of how you will react. He could also be fearing rejection or be
intimidated by your good looks. See if you still want to give him a
chance.
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